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Me and my husband had been engaged for two years and we had in April although unplanned we were both happy about having a baby. We decided to get married in June and these were all exciting times for us. 6 weeks after our wedding, my husband decided to do internet dating. Through all this he was lying to the girls he was not married and neither did he have children. I managed to find out about this as he had started to be withdrawn and wanting to go out more than usual. I noticed text messages from girls etc. Of course i wasnt happy about this, I confronted him. He didnt want to know, he said he was looking for someone outside our home to talk to. I created a fake email account on his dating site and he expressed his interest and wanted to date me. I was upset and showed him that it was me, took an overdose. While i was in hospital, he didnt care he decided to continue seeing these other women.
I decided to get back to work a week after all this. On my first day at work, i returned home and he had gone,. gone, gone-taken all his stuff and had left to go with one of these women.Our son is 5 months. tell you what since then, he has never phoned, never checked how our son is, he doesnt care. He went, no explanation nothing. This is a few weeks after being married.
Indeed, i have lost weight, I have cried, I have emailed him to get him to come back. But now, I think, im worth more than all this. Although I have a good job as a social worker I need my husband back, we had our life and our furure. How am I going to cope as a single mother. Its been hard so far, no maintenence nothing. No phone calls to check on our little boy.
After reading your message, I feel, you know what, get on with your life, spoil yourself, a child is a blessing, be strong and look after this boy. Only it will take time. I really need to get to the point where i feel as strong as you.
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