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Good on you princess mum. you have given me encouragement.
Me and my husband had been engaged for two years and we had in April although unplanned we were both happy about having a baby. We decided to get married in June and these were all exciting times for us. 6 weeks after our wedding, my husband decided to do internet dating. Through all this he was lying to the girls he was not married and neither did he have children. I managed to find out about this as he had started to be withdrawn and wanting to go out more than usual. I noticed text messages from girls etc. Of course i wasnt happy about this, I confronted him. He didnt want to know, he said he was looking for someone outside our home to talk to. I created a fake email account on his dating site and he expressed his interest and wanted to date me. I was upset and showed him that it was me, took an overdose. While i was in hospital, he didnt care he decided to continue seeing these other women.
I decided to get back to work a week after all this. On my first day at work, i returned home and he had gone,. gone, gone-taken all his stuff and had left to go with one of these women.Our son is 5 months. tell you what since then, he has never phoned, never checked how our son is, he doesnt care. He went, no explanation nothing. This is a few weeks after being married.
Indeed, i have lost weight, I have cried, I have emailed him to get him to come back. But now, I think, im worth more than all this. Although I have a good job as a social worker I need my husband back, we had our life and our furure. How am I going to cope as a single mother. Its been hard so far, no maintenence nothing. No phone calls to check on our little boy.
After reading your message, I feel, you know what, get on with your life, spoil yourself, a child is a blessing, be strong and look after this boy. Only it will take time. I really need to get to the point where i feel as strong as you.
Good on you.
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