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Re: partner let downs
Started by kyjaymummy at 02-10-2008 3:50 PM. Topic has 1 replies.

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  02-10-2008, 3:50 PM
kyjaymummy is not online. Last active: 10/2/2008 3:39:43 PM kyjaymummy

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I met who i thought was a really nice guy and settled down with him. Baby boy number one came and all seemed well.
When I was expecting my second son a girl phoned me saying she had been sleeping with my partner, unprotected and thought shev was pregnant. I was 6 mnths pregnant, the stress was unbearable but stupidly i decided to give him a 2nd chance. You know i wouldnyt have if we didnt have kids.
But guess what? He didnt cheat but has become addicted to cocaine. He lost all interest in the boys and me. Went misdsing for days on end. He refused to get help for his addiction, spent all the money we had. So i split up with him and dont allow contact with the boys until he gets help and is fully recovered.
The worst thing is he is happy to carry on taking drugs, frequenting clubs like some teenager. He hasnt even tried to change or fought to see his kids. Its funny how people can surprise you.
So i moved back with my p[arents and you know i get mopre help and support now than ever. Im starting a college corse in jan and i do so many things with my kids. Theres so much suffering i went through but iddo it all over again to have my kids and to know what i know.
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  18-10-2008, 1:48 PM
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I was reading your message and couldnt believe how similar your situation is to mine! My partner and I met when we were young and had 2 kids, all was great untill I discovered he was taking cocaine. We were together for 13 years, after confronting him he promised to stop and thats when it all got out of control. He decided not to stop and spent every penny we had. So after leaving him and moving in with my parents he just doesnt seem to care about anyone including the kids. Im finding this all very hard to cope with, its heartbreaking. Im a newly trained nurse and cannot get a job which works around the kids as all the jobs for new starts are 12 hour shift!
Reading your message let me know someone has been through the same situation and came out the other end!
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