 15-10-2007, 10:06 AM
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Jay
Joined on 20-09-2005
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Firstly congratulations.
Do not worry about rejecting your baby, you wont, that baby is part of you and is growing inside of you.
I had just come out of an abusive controling relationship, after dumping after finding out he had been cheating on me for a year and was having a baby with her. Then I found out I was pregnant. I did the whold pregnancy on my own, he wanted me to abort and physically tried to force the point. though I had a abuse and threats to both me and my unborn from the ex and his friends through out (not good for your stress levels at any time let alone pregnant).
I love my little boy completely, and he is mine all mine, I am his world. Its a wonderful feeling.
You are not going to reject your baby, because he or she is yours all yours and you are going to be there world.
Getting over a relationship whilst pregnant isn't easy, accept all the help and shoulder to lean on your offered.
Try and get hold of your local gingerbread group, they may be able to give you some support through your pregnancy and help get your ready to cope with it, but don't forget you have your son to help, get him involved early on, tell him all that is happening. I know he's only 12 but he's your son and he will be there for you and the new baby. Let him help sort the room for the baby, help chose the name, go to the scans even. Give him some quality time now, do some stuff together, even if its just the cinema, it will help you too.
Big hugs
Take care and think positive
Jay X
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