 20-08-2007, 11:43 AM
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Jay
Joined on 20-09-2005
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It doesn't seem real even on the day they arrive, its just so surreal.
If you want this baby have it, its your body, your choice and from what you have a said its a small miracle.
I can tell you my story, I can be here for support but I can't tell you what to do, you have to decide this for yourself.
As for the question of loving your child, yes you will love them, they will remind you of you and your family.
Let me tell you a little about my pregnancy a few weeks before I found I was pregnant I dumped my ex for cheating with me (he had got the woman he was cheating on me with for I found a whole year pregnant). The I found out I was pregnant, his reponse was to tell me to abort, he even picked me up by the throat and held me against a wall to force the point. He put my through hell during my pregnancy as he and his friends threatened both me and my unborn childs life, they went on the internet where i use to know people and went out of there way to slate me and tell the world what a babd person I was and what a terrible mother I would be. When pregnant and emotional this is hell.
BUT..
My son is everything to me, I wouldn't change him for the world, I look at him and see myself. Through all the hate that was thrown at me through out my pregnancy I came out with the most wonderful child and the most amazing love for him.
Being pregnant on your own is hard but people rally around to help you, even strangers.
Don't be frightened, make up your mind for yourself and stick with it. You are strong enough to do this.
Allow for the fact you will be very emotional.
Big hug and take care
Jay x
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